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Vaivahik Kuritiyan aur Vivah Paddhati

Vivah ek samajik sanstha hai, jiska uddeshya do vyaktiyon ke jeevan ko ek saath jodna hota hai. Lekin Bharat mein vivah se judi kai vaivahik kuritiyan hain jo is pavitra bandhan ko samasyaon ka kendra bana deti hain. In kuritiyon ka samaj par gahra prabhav padta hai, khaaskar mahilaon aur dalit-varg par. Saath hi, vivah paddhatiyon mein bhi samay ke saath badlav ki zarurat hai.

1. Dahej Pratha – Sabse Badi Kuriti
Sabse prachlit aur haanikarak kuriti hai dahej pratha. Ladki ke maa-baap ko shaadi ke samay paisa, gaadi, sona, ya property deni padti hai ladke wale ko. Isse ladkiyon ko bojh samjha jaata hai. Bahut si ladkiyon ki shaadi sirf isliye nahi hoti kyunki unke maa-baap afford nahi kar sakte dahej.

2. Bal Vivah
Kahi jagah aaj bhi bal vivah ka prachalan hai. 18 saal se kam umr ki ladkiyon ki shaadi kar di jaati hai. Isse ladkiyon ka shiksha se sambandh toot jaata hai aur unka jeevan anpadh aur nirbhar ban jata hai.

3. Jaati aur Gotra ka Bhed
Vivah mein jaati aur gotra ka bhed bhi ek kuriti ban chuka hai. Inter-caste marriage ko samaj mein tuchchh drishti se dekha jaata hai. Khap panchayat jaise sansthaayein inter-caste couples ko saja tak suna deti hain. Vivah ek vyakti ke personal choice ka mamla hona chahiye, na ki samajik bandhan ka.

4. Mahilaon ka Sthaan
Zyadatar vivah paddhatiyon mein mahilaon ka sthaan doosre darje ka hota hai. Unse seva ki ummeed ki jaati hai, lekin unke adhikar ya icchhaon ka sammaan nahi hota. Vivah ke baad mahilaon ko apna ghar, naam, aur pehchaan chhod dena padta hai.

5. Samajik Dabav aur Forced Marriages
Kai baar log samajik dabav mein aakar shaadi karte hain. Parents ke pressure, izzat ka sawal, ya parivaarik marzi ke naam par kai forced marriages hoti hain jisme vyakti ki marzi nahi hoti.

Vivah Paddhatiyon mein Badlav ki Zarurat
Aaj ke samay mein vivah paddhatiyon ko egalitarian banana hoga. Kuch naye alternatives hain:

Court Marriage – Legal aur simple tareeka jahan jaati, dharm, ya dahej ka prabhav nahi hota.

Inter-caste/inter-faith Marriage – Aise vivah samaj ko inclusive banate hain.

Live-in Relationships – Jo log shaadi nahi karna chahte, unke liye alternative model hai.

Companionate Marriage – Jahan dono partner barabari ke saath jeevan vyatit karte hain.

Vivah ko ek samanta aur swatantrata par adharit partnership banana hoga. Jab tak vivah ek patriarchy-based institution bana rahega, mahilaon aur kamzor varg ke saath anyaay hota rahega.

Yeh samay hai purani kuritiyon ko chhodkar naye samvedansheel aur samajik roop se nyayik vivah paddhatiyon ko apnane ka.

See Also : Ek Hi Vikalp